Jennifer Lopez's Ex-Husband Ojani Noa Slams Star in Furious Instagram Post

Jennifer Lopez went on the Howard Stern Show and took aim at her former relationships. She told the host that she didn't feel she had ever truly been loved.

Lopez, who has been married and divorced four times, told Stern, "What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovable — it’s that they’re not capable. … They don’t have it in them. And they gave me what they had. They gave me all of it, every time. All the rings, all the things I could ever want. The houses, the rings, the marriage. All of it. But….”'

Her comments were met with swift reaction:

• The singer/actress's claims didn't sit well with her first husband, Ojani Noa, who was married to Lopez for less than a year in the 1990s, and he let her have it on his Instagram page.
• Lopez has been married to three other men: Dancer Cris Judd, singer Marc Anthony, and actor Ben Affleck.

Ojani Noa Wrote That He Considers Jennifer Lopez to Be the 'Problem'

In the post, Noa lobbed accusations at Lopez and declared that she is the "problem."

“Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card. The problem is not us. Not me. The problem is you," he wrote.

“You have been ‘loved’ a few times,” he added. “You have been married four times. And have had countless relationships in between. You’ve had good relationships… Me for example.”

He continued in the lengthy post, “I’m an amazing, loving person, great human being. Honest, faithful to you, never lied, never miss behave, never cheated on you,” Noa said. “I was good to you. I’m too good of a (man) for you.”

Noa added, “But you. You chose fame and fortune moving apart of our relationship... I even tried to keep the marriage going and alive. You begged me to keep the marriage intact to avoid bad press caring more about you.”

“Tell the truth for once,” he added. “Let people know you are the problem. You should be embarrassed, ashamed of yourself.”

The New York Post reported that Lopez met Noa when he was a waiter in Miami after arriving from Cuba on a raft.

Noa has spoke out Lopez before. "I was the first, the pioneer," he told Daily Mail. "I was there at the beginning of her career supporting her, ­dealing with her anxieties and insecurities."

‘I was a really good husband because I believe in marriage. When we divorced, I was heartbroken. I feel when she got what she wanted, I was no longer needed," he added. "I put a lot of time and effort into loving her,’ he says. ‘But when you’re with someone, you have to spend quality time with them and not think about being on camera."

Jennifer Lopez Told Howard Stern That Getting Divorced From Ben Affleck Was 'the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me'

According to The New York Post, Lopez explained to Stern that she has done a lot of work on herself.

“When I got divorced this last time, it was the best thing that ever happened to me. Because it really made me journey into — I mean, I had a religious coach, I had a therapist, a couple’s therapist, an individual therapist, I had a coach to understand addiction. I had everything. I was like, ‘I’m gonna f—in’ figure this s— out if it kills me.,'" she told Stern.

She told the host that she now understands “core of the thing is you — it’s nobody else.”

“Now I’m able to sit here in a much more self-assured, self-aware way of the things that have happened to me, whether my mother, my father, in my own life, how I learned to love, how I felt neglected — all the things that are in your head as a person — and know who I am and just really appreciate that person,” Lopez said. “[I] feel really comfortable and good in being myself, all the good parts and all the kind of complicated things.”

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