What Can You Do If Your Partner Orgasms Quickly?

How long should it take your partner to orgasm? Chances are you have an answer to that question, even if you don’t acknowledge it to your partner. But orgasms are tricky business because even the best-laid plans don’t always succeed between the sheets. We can’t dictate how the body reacts in sexual situations. Our sexual bodies march to their own drummers – they don’t accommodate our sexual ideals. We cannot tell the body who to desire, which fantasies to find compelling, or how much stimulation is needed to orgasm. Source: Dmitry Zimin/ShutterstockWhen it comes to orgasming quickly, guys have it rough. From an evolutionary perspective, orgasming fast is a clear advantage. That’s because, thousands of years ago, the longer it took him to come meant more opportunity to be attacked by predators like lions or bears. Guys who orgasmed quickly would be more likely to successfully reproduce, at least in comparison to guys who took their good old time before impregnating their partner, all th...